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Are you affected by a loved one’s addiction?


To find out if you are affected by a loved one’s substance misuse, answer the questions below. Answering yes to the majority of these questions indicates how much your life is adversely affected by their addiction.
  1. Are you constantly trying to control the addict’s life?
  2. Do you make excuses for their behavior or cover up their mistakes?
  3. Do you feel guilty and ashamed because of their addiction?
  4. Do you feel exhausted and confused because of their dishonesty and manipulations?
  5. Are you constantly worried something bad is going to happen to them?
  6. Are you always tired, nervous or depressed?
  7. Do you believe it is your fault they are misusing drugs/alcohol?
  8. Are you made to believe your shortcomings has led to their condition?
  9. Do you feel alone and feel ashamed to talk to anyone believing you are guilty for their addiction?
  10. Do you wake up in the morning not knowing what to expect from them?
  11. Is the quality of your daily life dependant on how they are feeling each day?
  12. Is your own life in turmoil because of their addiction?